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  • When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

    By Tom Hoffman

    The culture war begun in the sixties has, in large part, been won by the left. Nowhere is this clearer than in the feminization of men. The virtues of manhood which had been extolled and celebrated throughout the middle ages right up to the 1950s have been completely expunged from academia and pop culture. The baby boom generation was the last to be taught the values of rugged individualism, risk-taking, courage, bravery, loyalty, and reverence for tradition. John Wayne epitomized the rugged individual who was committed to fighting "the bad guy," but he was only one of a whole host of competing figures cut out of the same cloth. What happened?

    Today, the Boy Scouts are fighting the last battle in a lost cause. Any man who stands up to the "women's movement" is completely marginalized as a sexist and homophobe. These names have become just as stigmatizing as "racist" used to be. It is no wonder that women now are the majority of college graduates and are increasing their role in every institution from private enterprise to public service, including the military. Is this a healthy trend? The answer is clearly "no."

    Edward Gibbon chronicles the increasing femininity of the Roman Empire in his six-volume work, The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire. He catalogues the progressive decadence that rendered the once-proud republic into spoils for barbarian hordes. The consuls in the early republic, who were warrior-generals adhering to a strict code of honor, gradually gave way to the backroom emperors who were no more than brazen criminals and thugs. It is the same script in all noble human enterprise: The fabric which bred success is torn apart by the complacency of the successful. When warfare is demonized as violence and negotiation is raised to an art, the end is near. Today, we are there.

    Today's politics reminds me of the make-believe kingdom of Queen Herzeloyde. She was the mother of Parzival, the hero of Wolfram von Eschenbach's 12th-century epic poem Parzival. This masterwork is widely touted as a literary cornerstone of Western civilization. It not only extolled the virtues of knighthood and chivalry, but it also exhorted men to overcome all obstacles on the path to individual greatness.

    Parzival's mother was married to a knightly king whose military campaigns against worldly evil kept him away from his kingdom for years on end. Herzeloyde is heartbroken to hear of her husband's death and vows to keep her son sheltered from the knightly world. She sets up a royal court in the wilderness with a deadly sanction against anyone who would allow her son to come in contact with a knight. The boy grows up oblivious of the outside world until he confronts two knights in shining armor on horseback. His mother is distraught to discover that there will be no discouraging her son's ambition to become a knight. She goes so far as to dress her son as a fool upon his setting out upon his adventure in hopes that he will be humiliated and return to her.

    Academia, with the help of the media, has labeled all reference to manly virtue as patriarchal, sexist, and homophobic. Womanly virtue, on the other hand, is extolled. Caring, compassion, sensitivity, and understanding are virtues meant to blur the distinction between good and evil and drown out the call of manly conscience to "do the right thing." Like a mother who refuses to see the evil in her son, the feminist professors cast all moral standards as relative and subjective.

    Exit the cowboy and enter the mama's boy. Queen Herzeloyde would have no problem raising young Parzival in today's schools, as devoid of examples of manly virtue and rugged individualism as they are. All reference to the service of a higher calling -- to God and country -- has been replaced by the call to community service with the emphasis on care and compassion for the downtrodden.

    We now have a would-be queen named Pelosi who sits atop a vast bureaucracy dedicated to rooting out all reference to God and a higher calling while making sure that any reference to manly virtue, rugged individualism, and decency is stigmatized as "hate speech." No nation has ever demonized manhood to its own reward. A nation that renounces violence, no matter how just the cause, signs its own death certificate -- and for a violent death at that.

    http://www.americanthinker.com/2010/...es_go_out.html
    Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read. -Groucho

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    Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

    Originally posted by Master Shake View Post
    By Tom Hoffman

    ...Exit the cowboy and enter the mama's boy. Queen Herzeloyde would have no problem raising young Parzival in today's schools, as devoid of examples of manly virtue and rugged individualism as they are. All reference to the service of a higher calling -- to God and country -- has been replaced by the call to community service with the emphasis on care and compassion for the downtrodden.

    We now have a would-be queen named Pelosi who sits atop a vast bureaucracy dedicated to rooting out all reference to God and a higher calling while making sure that any reference to manly virtue, rugged individualism, and decency is stigmatized as "hate speech." No nation has ever demonized manhood to its own reward. A nation that renounces violence, no matter how just the cause, signs its own death certificate -- and for a violent death at that...



    http://www.americanthinker.com/2010/...es_go_out.html
    The more than faint misogynist undertone doesn't help the author with his case. Maybe instead of blaming feminist professors and the school system, he should ask himself why there are so many single parent households with kids being raised without a male role model. Seems a lot of men have decided to dispense with the responsibility of raising the children they helped create. But then being responsible for the consequences of your own actions doesn't fit that "rugged individualism" thing, does it...

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      Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

      You don't think that the feminization of men has been a dominant cultural theme over the past 40 or so years?
      Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read. -Groucho

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        Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

        Originally posted by Master Shake View Post
        You don't think that the feminization of men has been a dominant cultural theme over the past 40 or so years?
        No.

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          Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

          Originally posted by Master Shake View Post
          You don't think that the feminization of men has been a dominant cultural theme over the past 40 or so years?
          Maybe the fact that we destroyed our industrial base has something to do with it? But let's be honest, would you prefer to work in a coal mine, or steel mill, or in a well conditioned cubicle reviewing insurance policies?

          Which type of job, over time, "toughens" one up?

          I'm a firm believer that people are the same as they were 1,000 years ago, and beyond. The only reason they change is due to circumstances. Environment plays a great role. One generation isn't more responsible, or more "manly" than another - one generation lives in a different environment than the other... and adapts - good or bad, or both. That's the difference.

          We all too easily blame the kids for the world we create. I'm not being critical here either. It's just that stability does not breed individualism and self reliance. Instability does.

          Go to countries that pretty much live as the West has lived 200 years ago. Where survival is very different. Watch how the men act, watch how the women are treated.

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            Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

            There was a masculinity crisis in America in the late 1800s due to industrialization. With large scale production, not only was farm-based labor being shifted to urban factories, but a new managerial class was being created to supervise this burgeoning workforce. That was where the masculinity crisis made its bed. A new phenomenon, the Men's Athletic Club, was one result. "Working out" was a laughable concept, on the first beer, to farm families, miners, factory girls, child labor, etc.

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              Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

              Speaking as an early feminist, I think there's truth to be found in both sides, and the more polarization, the less truth. I was active in the Women's movement in the early '70s when I was a teenager. I saw no reason why I should be denied equal pay for equal work, or why I should be denied any job for which I am qualified, simply because of my sex. I still think the struggle to achieve equality in those areas was and is, a noble endeavor.

              But I also hated the feminization of men that I saw going on. I call it (probably unfairly to the gentleman) the Alan Alda-ization of men. Men who will calmly say, "I am very angry about that" without actually yelling and hollaring when they are very angry. But to be fair, that sort of sublimation of strong emotion is commonplace now amongst both sexes.

              Emotions can be powerful things, and I do see a fear of personal power in our culture. There is a difference between yelling in anger, for example, and actually doing violent harm from said anger. Anger can be constructive. It is the emotion that impels us to change an untenable situation. When righteous anger is demonized, it gets internalized as depression or comes out sideways in inappropriate ways, such as mysogeny or scapegoating.

              Anyone who has actually raised children will tell you that there is a real difference between boys and girls. Anyone who loves their children will want to see them achieve their personal best in life, in accordance with their natures. This means letting boys be boys and girls be girls, and also not forcing them into limited, stereotypical gender roles. If one loves their daughters, one will not want them discriminated against in the work force, and that makes one a feminist in my book.

              Children, both boys and girls, need to be raised to be self-reliant and responsible, compassionate and caring. And that comes from parents modeling those attributes every minute of every day.

              Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

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                Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

                The whole 'Jocks and Geeks' meme as noted by iTulip would seem to indicate that feminization of America is not working.

                If anything the opposite: the overcommitment to debt, the 'flash' vs. substance - these are masculine traits more than feminine.

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                  Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

                  Ridiculous. One of my early Aikido teachers was a gay, ex AAU weight-lifting champion. . .The so-called "manly virtues" are in the "last refuge of scoundrels" category: when circumstances get you down, call people names. I would suggest a more thorough-going practice: examine the source of perception, and then examine it again. And again, and again.

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                    Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

                    Excellent post and relevant. I am a single father raising two boys who, amazingly enough, live with me. I am sure there are other men like me: tired of an overwrought Feminist philosophy the gives women an excuse to act like jackasses and enter a world of self-justification based on rationalization much like the men of a hundred years ago who trampled on women and their rights as a human being. Women should be equals but they often cherry pick our cultural norms to try and get the best of both worlds. They have become what they abhor: opportunist using gender as an excuse. For every "missing father" I will show you an woman who is trapped in a vicious cycle of need for help conflicted with a desire for freedom convolved with a demand of control over the child's environment leading to unserviceable and conflicting expectations that fuel anger on both sides. Politically correct driven Feminism doesn't address the needs of a real woman facing real challenges anymore than The Secret does. Women and Men are equal in their weakness and their strengths and these are complimentary to each other. We need each and we need each other to be who we are. And, before you jump down my throat I will report that I also was raised by a strong capable woman who was successful in the workplace and who raised four successful sons. I listened to the nastiness of the male world attacking her and she fulfilled who she was back in the sixties and seventies. PEOPLE can be terrible. She taught us that independence tempered by self-discipline was the critical formula for becoming a good person. We seem to have forged a world of reliance and uncontrollable urge. Perhaps this is a clue to what is wrong and what must change.

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                      Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

                      I can agree with the feminization theory to a point, but I'd be more inclined to call it the "wussification of America". And it affects both males and females. We've become a bunch of weak crybabies with little endurance for mental or physical pain, or any type of discomfort, no matter how brief. I've also noted an overreaction to this so called feminization in the form of exagerrated aggressive behavior in some men. In some circles if you are not a cage fighting, tattooed, misogynistic, steroid raging jerk, then you are a considered a wimp. It's like a cartoon of what they think a man is supposed to be like. I also notice a lot of passive aggressive type behavior in men that I never used to see. Perhaps its their weak attempt to resist this trend.

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                        Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

                        Originally posted by GRG55 View Post
                        The more than faint misogynist undertone doesn't help the author with his case. Maybe instead of blaming feminist professors and the school system, he should ask himself why there are so many single parent households with kids being raised without a male role model. Seems a lot of men have decided to dispense with the responsibility of raising the children they helped create. But then being responsible for the consequences of your own actions doesn't fit that "rugged individualism" thing, does it...
                        You really haven't put much thought into this.

                        Are you really trying to tell us that it's just a remarkable coincidence that this peculiar social problem arose with the advent of liberal theory?

                        Regardless, we don't need rhetoric for our "cause". Liberalism is a self limiting disease. When social dysfunction reaches a level where civilized society is no longer tenable, some will be ready to start things anew.

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                          Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

                          Originally posted by KGW View Post
                          Ridiculous. One of my early Aikido teachers was a gay, ex AAU weight-lifting champion. . .The so-called "manly virtues" are in the "last refuge of scoundrels" category: when circumstances get you down, call people names. I would suggest a more thorough-going practice: examine the source of perception, and then examine it again. And again, and again.
                          What you have done here is in fact call people names. You have dismissed a particular cultural value by suggesting it is exclusively associated with "scoundrels".

                          A typical illogical liberal response "I'm intolerant of intolerance!"

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                            Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

                            Originally posted by flintlock View Post
                            I can agree with the feminization theory to a point, but I'd be more inclined to call it the "wussification of America". And it affects both males and females. We've become a bunch of weak crybabies with little endurance for mental or physical pain, or any type of discomfort, no matter how brief. I've also noted an overreaction to this so called feminization in the form of exagerrated aggressive behavior in some men. In some circles if you are not a cage fighting, tattooed, misogynistic, steroid raging jerk, then you are a considered a wimp. It's like a cartoon of what they think a man is supposed to be like. I also notice a lot of passive aggressive type behavior in men that I never used to see. Perhaps its their weak attempt to resist this trend.
                            And what would that be ? I don't understand to what kind of behavior you refer to.

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                              Re: When Masculine Virtues Go Out of Fashion

                              Serge, I don't call delusions cultural values.

                              Originally posted by Serge_Tomiko View Post
                              What you have done here is in fact call people names. You have dismissed a particular cultural value by suggesting it is exclusively associated with "scoundrels".

                              A typical illogical liberal response "I'm intolerant of intolerance!"

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